...will concentrate my love on my mate only.

...will not be disloyal in little matters.

...will not be involved in flirtations.

...will flee from temptations.

...will control my fantasies.

...loving each other

we have to 'work' at loving each other.

...moving on to the feeling and conviction levels

...telling of my need to communicate.

...Not rehashing old conversations.

...starting on the fact level.

...husbands need to talk to their wives.

...wives need to talk to their husbands.

...both should feel free to respond honestly.

...every problem should be talked through.

...opportunities for talking should be valued.

Marriage is to give and to take.

Marriage is giving up and giving in.

Marriage is overcoming self.

Marriage is a struggle of wills.

Marriage is being a servant.

Marriage is helping each other.

Marriage is living together.