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How we love
our stories, and how well they teach and inspire.
I was browsing on the Internet this weekend and came across a great story. It was an article by
Ruben Gonzalez, three-time Olympian, who calls himself "The Luge Guy." He's now a speaker on
success, following your dream, and "becoming
unstoppable."
In the article he talks about living your dream and how important it is for motivation.
He says when he asks elementary school audiences if they have dreams, almost all the hands go up.
When he talks to middle schools, only half the hands go up. With high school and college
students, only a few hands go up. And, he says,
when he talks to adult groups he's surprised if a hand goes up.
What was really interesting is, I was just reading along, until I came to the part where he said he
dreamed of becoming an Olympic athlete starting around 3rd grade, but got away from it and drifted
until around college age when he became inspired
by observing another athlete who made it against the odds.
Then I sat up and paid attention! Starting to prepare for an Olympic career in college is nearly
impossible. And so I was inspired.
I'm always inspired by personal stories, aren't you? Einstein being a poor student, George
Washington Carver saying he talked to the flowers and that's how they grew, Shakespeare,
Eisenhower, Frost and Emerson overcoming the loss of their sons, and Maya Angelou's stories about
her mother.
Are you sharing stories with your clients and co-workers? There's nothing as inspiring as
hearing how someone else has gained resilience
through adversity. Do share yours!
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www.susandunn.cc. Emotional intelligence coaching
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