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It's that time of
year again when we start talking and thinking about New Year's
Resolutions even though they're old hat and we instinctively
know they don't work. Because your friends, family and
colleagues may chat about what Resolutions they're going to
make, do you find yourself wondering whether to make any?
We know that within a few days or weeks, the Resolutions
will be forgotten, nothing will have changed and yet for some
reason most people still worry about them. So why do we
still bother with New Year's Resolutions? First, they're
a custom and a New Year ushers in a new start, so what better
time than now? There's even a small chance that we may
stick to our Resolutions this year, so we have a go. The
main reason some people think about New Year's Resolutions is
because they
want to change things in their life.
There's the usual New Year's Resolutions, such as I want to
lose weight, change jobs, or earn more money but they tend to
be the same ones you've had for years and they're still
incomplete. These types of Resolutions are too vague.
It's this vagueness, coupled with a lack of action which means
that most people don't achieve their New Year's Resolutions. For
Resolutions to work, they need to be well thought out and have
real meaning. If not, they become a vague item on your
"wish list" instead of actually doing something
concrete about them.
The word resolution comes from 'resolve' and means to make up
one's mind or decide firmly. Prior to New Years Day you
may think of Resolutions you want to make and probably feel
you've made up your mind, but what happens? Probably,
very little or even nothing at all. Even though you know
that Resolutions don't usually work, it seems that most us
still want to make them. Perhaps that's because other
people around you do it, so you feel you should follow suit
because there are things in your life which you want to be
different. The end of a year is a time for clearing out
and completing things, to leave us with a clean slate ready to
start a new year. There's something
about a new year, a new beginning, and a fresh start which
encourages us to make New Year's Resolutions. It's a
powerful feeling to know you have a year ahead of you and you
can choose what you do with it. It's a time for
reflection about where you want to go next.
What about committing to New Year changes and actions, rather
than Resolutions? The key to achieving what you really
want in life and business is to take action to achieve those
changes. It's the lack of action which stops us from
having what we most want. What you want will be
different for each individual and may include
· More time in your personal life
· Less stress and more fun.
· Greater business and career success.
· Balance between work and home
· Altering your management or leadership style.
You may think I'm talking about life and business separately,
yet they're inextricably linked. The key point is that
you may want to focus on your professional life, yet this is
directly related to
your personal life.
Thinking about New Year's Resolutions may have made you aware
that there are some changes you want to make. I
encourage you to take steps on a consistent basis to make
these changes, rather than vaguely tossing Resolutions around
and not doing anything about them.
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She
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discover and unlock their own inspiration, to effortlessly
take
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