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Do you know
what you like? Do you know what is right for you?
Brian Tracy says that it is important to know what is right
for
yourself before you think of what is possible. Do you know
what
brings you joy? If you do know, how often do these things show
up in your life? Do you plan for them?
It is interesting--and powerful--to focus your attention on
what
you want in life...experiences you wish to repeat, attributes
you wish to develop, goals you wish to reach and, fulfilling
ways to spend your time and energy. When you keep your mind,
time and energy on these things, there is little time for
anything else--and the "anything else" fades away!
At this time of year it is traditional to decide on next
year's
priorities. Do this very carefully. Make it a balanced plan
with
desires in each area of your life to move your physical,
social,
educational, financial, mental, emotional and spiritual self,
forward. Once you have decided on the priorities, assign a
daily, weekly, monthly or annual amount of time for each that
will satisfy you. This is important. There is no right answer.
What will cause you to feel good about yourself when you do
it?
It can be different for different people. Some folks want to
run
a marathon and that is what they mean when they are planning
to improve their exercise program. That will take more time
than for a person who wants to increase their time doing
weight-bearing exercise to prevent osteoporosis. Know what
your goal is and why. That will help you assign the
appropriate amount of time to each priority.
Make sure that your goals are "do-able". Build in
success this
way. Make them very specific, measurable and time-bounded.
Your mind can capture a goal that says, "I will lose ten
pounds by March 1 by eliminating ice-cream from my diet and
walking three miles three times a week", whereas it has
difficulty understanding "I am eating less and exercising
more." Be
specific.
Often, there are many things undone in our lives. Things we
wish we had done, things we know are always sitting at the
back of our minds draining our energy. These are 'energy
leaks'. You know the "(Expletive) I still haven't
___________yet!" that hits you while you're waiting for a
red light to change. It's a 'leak'!
Here is a process that I find amazingly effective. Complete
this
Personal Integrity Checklist to start your year with no energy
'leaks'. Download it at for free from http://www.OptimizeInstitute.com/tools/pic.htm.
Clearing away
your energy leaks is a good preparation for being successful
with your new plan.
ALWAYS REMEMBER----WHAT YOU PAY ATTENTION TO EXPANDS!
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Expert
facilitator, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, makes it easier to talk
about difficult things. Author of over a dozen insightful
books
& audio programs, she works with executives, entrepreneurs
&
employees who want to master the 'people skills' that grease
the wheels of business & life.. Free coaching
consultation. Visit
www.OptimizeInstitute.com
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